Simple Steps for Making Up
I’ve seen it happen many times. Everytime some friend breack ups with her girlfriend, they fall to pieces and fall to the usual steps: call her day and night, get drunk and call her at 3 am saying how sorry they are, following her around the city and try to find out what she is doing or who is she seeing. All these only make them look patetic and needy. Let me put three easy steps to take that can pad the way to get your ex back.
1. Agree with the break up. What you are telling your ex girlfriend is that you have moved on and you are over her. This will make you more interesting to her. Even if this is hard for you, do it. This is just the beginning.
Of course this isn’t true because you want to get your ex girlfriend back, but back to the point: This will make your ex girlfriend feel attracted to you again because women and men want what they can’t have. If you give her the impression that she can’t have you back, you will notice how her reactions change and she will start wanting you more. This is because everybody wants what they can’t have. Remain cool at all times and she will be more attracted to you.
2. Do not call her after that first phone call or meeting after you let her know you’re ok with the breakup. The longer you do not talk to her after the initial impression that you’re no longer interested in her and have moved on, the more and more she’ll want you back.
When she senses that you’ve moved on and aren’t interested, 95% of the time she will want to get back to you. You must display confidence and independence from her when you initially speak to her. The better you do this, the better the effect and the longer you do not call her after, the more she will want you back. She’ll call, you’ll see (if you do it right).
3. If you have done everything right, she will want to meet you. Keep the hard to get attitude. If you do it right away, she will lose interest again, so keep her on the ropes. When you actually meet get again, be distant but courteous.
In these three steps you’ve prepared the path to win her heart back. Remember, this is the beggining. There’s still more to do.
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