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Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″ kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But first, let’s go waaay back…

It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.

That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can’t take my eyes off away from her)…

She was one of the popular kids in school but was so nice and friendly to everyone.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly…but I chickened out at the last minute.

A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.

I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this seems a pretty common experience among them there was this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, and they missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…

Ah, the hard to tame “10,” a perfect girl that every guy dream of but never seems to have it.

I have so many things to say about this so-called “10’s.” In one word they are women of another “breed,” but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.

First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.

A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true “10″ and is the one that’s perfect for you.

The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.

It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.

Why?

Because every other guy does that.

A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.

But there certainly a type of women that seems to have an another “level” beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

You need to understand on how you will deal with these kinds of women.

Like I said, you shouldn’t treat them “differently.”

Let me explain it.

You shouldn’t treat a girl BETTER than the others. But there are two things you need to know.

First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.

She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.

Now for your own sake I’m going to give you a heads up.

There are two types of “10’s.”

High self esteem, and low self-esteem.

Low self esteem 10’s are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, most of their lives are probably coasted, and are in complete dumbasses.

It may sound harsh but I call it like that.

These women will respond to jerk behavior. They take away and flip out their validation will and do anything to get it back.

Anything.

(Aside from it, these women usually suck in bed and when you get involved with them, they are in total head cases.)

On the other hand, the high self-esteem 10’s women have had a taste of elite- they know early from the start that high levels of society were attainable to them, and they work hard to be successful, intelligent, and make the most of their lives.

These women are motivated to put an extra effort because they know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else.

HSE 10’s usually have good attitudes, have a direction in life, are intelligent, and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

Actually, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

It is because they have high standards for themselves, and this makes most men either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.

But here’s the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

The Attraction Code is about being a “male 10,” the best man you can be.

You’ll notice an interesting thing when you start to embody the Attraction Code.

Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you’ll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they’re not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently… you’ll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”

The girl will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are plenty of 10’s out there waiting for you.

Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.

Vin

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